It was the winter of year 2002. I
was in the last year of college and reached home exhausted after a
long day and back to back lectures. I was about to bite on my
favorite snack and have my cuppa when my parents broke the news of
moving to UK for a better future.
I was brokenhearted. The thought of
leaving my dearest friends and family was the last one on my mind!
Although I didn't approve of their sudden decision, I had no choice
but to accept it and move with them. Even after the migration to UK,
I would have minimal conversation with my parents and kept sulking
over whatever happened.
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| Surbiton tennis club |
Sometimes, I am
really left surprised by my dad's ways of making me feel better even
during the worst state of my mind. It had just been a few weeks and
he gifted me with the voucher of membership at a
Surbiton tennis club. It truly made my day! I was inclined towards playing tennis since I was in school. Seeing my passion for tennis, my dad had taken up a membership at a similar club. I missed my tennis group the most. My dad gave me a reason not to.
Surbiton tennis club. It truly made my day! I was inclined towards playing tennis since I was in school. Seeing my passion for tennis, my dad had taken up a membership at a similar club. I missed my tennis group the most. My dad gave me a reason not to.
I attended the club daily after my
university lectures. Infact, I would look forward to it. The reason
was Matthew. Nicknamed Matt, he was one of the very good friends that
I made at the club. He was a broad-shouldered guy having a mop of
dark hair and striking blue eyes. It was quite surprising when one
fine day he asked me to accompany him for his daily tennis playing
sessions. I had no incline about Matt's feelings for me. There was
nothing charming about the way I looked. Perhaps, he is impressed by
my tennis playing skills; I thought.
We started dating. A string of
dinners and late night movies followed and the cupid struck us. I
didn't know love will come finding me in the UK! My parents didn't
object much to the late night outings thinking that I was hanging out
in a group. The affair was kept hush hush for 3 years until Matt
popped the question. I was absolutely elated. As Matt and I had
decided to marry, we had no choice but to let the cat out of the bag.
The feelings of anxiety about my parent's reaction followed.
Though my parents knew Matthew, they
were a bit taken aback when he came dressed in a black tuxedo with
well-kempt hair to ask my hand for marriage. During one of the
awkward moments, Matt finally gathered courage to ask my hand. My
parents were flabbergasted! But as they did not want to look
unsophisticated by their displeasing reactions, they asked Matt to
give them some time. After a few days of hesitation, indecisiveness
and arguments, my parents finally agreed. My happiness knew no
bounds!
Rituals and customs have been an
integral part of Indian families ever since the couples started tying
knots. They are a great opportunity for the families to meet, uphold
their traditions and talk about their culture. Fortunately or
unfortunately, these roots entangle you even after you move out of
the country. My parents had given their consent for marriage on one
condition. Matt should have a traditional Indian wedding with me. He
and his family were more than happy.
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| Reflexology Richmond making my feet shine! |
My nonaligned teeth made me look like a nerd after I had met with an unpleasant accident in India. It was time for me to go for a makeover. I had heard of a renowned dentist in Whitton and he had finally obliged me with an appointment. He checked my teeth with his state-of-the-art equipment and 5 sessions of teeth alignment followed. The daily traveling, searches for an ideal wedding venue and sending invitations left me tanned and tired. One of my friends suggested me to visit an amazing spa center based in Richmond. I decided to opt for reflexology in Richmond and other treatments which made me look gorgeous during my wedding.
The wedding day arrived. Matt was
overwhelmed by the variety of food and hospitality his family
received during our wedding. The priest had arrived from India and he
tried to explain each ritual to Matt in detail. I smiled and simply
adored Matt's way of nodding to the broken English of the priest. I
was head over heels in love with him; again!
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| Our Honeymoon Suite |
We
quickly obtained the marriage certificate from one of the Twickeham solicitors and were on our way to Matt's place after the wedding. I was teary
eyed and the thought of leaving my parents was truly disappointing.
But Matt finds ways to make me happy. He closed my eyes and asked me
to extend my hands. I opened my eyes and what I saw was jaw-dropping!
He had booked a honeymoon suite at a leading boutique hotel in Turks and Caicos. I
hugged him and thanked him a ton for making my dream come true. I
couldn't believe that Matt remembered about my fascination for this
exotic destination. Here I am, sitting besides Matt watching him
sleep. I am writing my daily dairy. My life has taken a new turn,
for better ofcourse!


